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"STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN"*
Apparently the afterlife comes with floral rivalries, penthouse suites, and décor competitions I did not sign up for. 💐⚰️
New essay about cemeteries, legacy, and learning to unclench—just a little.
katharinetonti
Dec 3, 20254 min read
WE ARE FAMILY...(SORT OF...)
Some families pass down recipes. Others pass down drama. This essay is for everyone who’s ever survived the holidays by smiling through gritted teeth and counting the hours until they can take home some leftovers. 🍗
#humorwriting #holidayfamilydynamics #writingcommunity #blogessay
katharinetonti
Nov 5, 20253 min read


"THANKS FOR THE MEMORY"*
A frequent topic of conversation among my boomer friends is what to do with all the things we’ve accumulated over a lifetime. Those with children or grandchildren worry that no one wants their belongings. Those without kids already see their treasures ending up in a dumpster. The generations that follow don't want these items either. What do we do with these items and the memories that go with them?
katharinetonti
Sep 17, 20253 min read
"TRADITION! TRADITION!"
I had no idea that when I decided to resurrect one of my mom's recipes, it would take a deli whisperer named Bruno to help me bring that tradition to life.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20254 min read


"FOOTLOOSE"
From a teenage fashion faux pas to a surprising source of connection across generations, this is story about belonging, growing up, and the unlikely power of shoes.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20255 min read


"PENNSYLVANIA 6-5000"
What started as a file purge turned into a rediscovery of my dad’s one-of-a-kind logic. Unpacking the mysteries of an old family phone book — and finding comfort tucked between the chaos.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20254 min read


"WEDDING BELL BLUES"
Nine weddings. Zero fairytales. And enough plot twists to fill a Netflix series. Here’s an essay that reflects on a lifetime of bridal mishaps, near-misses, and why I’m finally happy to have a cocktail in hand — and no bouquet to catch.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20255 min read


"THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER YOU"
In this Father’s Day essay, I try my best to honor the memory of a quiet, principled man who led with integrity and signed every card the same way: Love, Dad
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20252 min read


"I AM MY OWN BEST FRIEND"
From stubborn shrubs to family pride, I have a deeply ingrained resistance to asking for help, but here’s what finally convinced me to do otherwise.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20255 min read
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