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"JUST THE WAY YOU ARE"*
Lily was never just a pet. She was my duet partner. đ¶ A year later, the music has stopped, but the rhythm remains. My latest essay on love, loss, and a cat named Lily.
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2 days ago3 min read
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"UNDER THE SEA"
Years ago, I decided to trade the high-stakes world of banking for a career at SeaWorld. I arrived for my "audition" in a suit and heels, convinced that a degree in Theatre was basically the same thing as a Masterâs in Marine Biology. I was wrong. Very, very wrong.
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Jan 64 min read
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"ISN'T SHE LOVELY?"*
Apparently itâs gender-reveal meltdown season, and I have thoughts. About dads, daughters, expectationsâand why pink confetti shouldnât send a grown man into orbit. đđ„
katharinetonti
Dec 10, 20253 min read
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"STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN"*
Apparently the afterlife comes with floral rivalries, penthouse suites, and dĂ©cor competitions I did not sign up for. đâ°ïž
New essay about cemeteries, legacy, and learning to unclenchâjust a little.
katharinetonti
Dec 3, 20254 min read
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"THE SOUND OF SILENCE"*
Some people bring joy when they enter a room. Others bring⊠a word count. This oneâs for anyone whoâs ever survived coffee with an Extrovert With No Self-Awareness (EWNSA). âïžđ”âđ«
katharinetonti
Nov 26, 20253 min read
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"DECK THE HALLS (...and shelves, and counters, and tables....)"
11.12.2025 When I bought my condo in 2012, it was clear the place had seen better days â flimsy curtains, faded carpeting, a pink bathroom sink, and wallpaper borders straight out of 1992. It had been maintained, but it hadn't been loved and cared for in a long time. Still, I saw potential. What I didnât realize at the time was that the condoâs state mirrored my own. Recently divorced and forced to give up nearly all my possessions, I too felt faded around the edges â intact,
katharinetonti
Nov 12, 20254 min read
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WE ARE FAMILY...(SORT OF...)
Some families pass down recipes. Others pass down drama. This essay is for everyone whoâs ever survived the holidays by smiling through gritted teeth and counting the hours until they can take home some leftovers. đ
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katharinetonti
Nov 5, 20253 min read
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"CANDLE IN THE WIND"*
Change has a way of dimming what we hold dear â but sometimes, one small light keeps us going. This is a story about loss, legacy, and the neighbors who unknowingly help us find our way home. đŻđ
katharinetonti
Oct 29, 20253 min read
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"EXIT, PURSUED BY A BEAR"*
So begins the process of blocking a show - ensuring each movement helps tell the story, while keeping the actors safe.
katharinetonti
Oct 15, 20256 min read
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"IT'S NICE TO GO TRAV'LING"
10.08.2025 Â Friendship, souvenirs, and a raccoonâs guide to home improvement. A few years ago, a friend of mine went on vacation. When they returned, they told me they had bought souvenirs for all their friends; however, they didnât buy me anything because, in their words, âYou already have everything.â I was caught off guard by their comment and didnât know how to respond, so I said nothing. But the more I thought about it, the more it made me question our friendshipâor wha
katharinetonti
Oct 8, 20252 min read
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âRIKKI DON'T LOSE THAT NUMBER"*
Text scams are reaching a new level of creativity. How deep into the convo do you get before you know it's scam?
katharinetonti
Oct 1, 20253 min read
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"TAKE ME HOME, COUNTRY ROADS"*
Preparedness, it turns out, is less about surviving the weirdest stories and more about making sure you have small comforts and friends to call on when you need them.
katharinetonti
Sep 24, 20255 min read
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"THANKS FOR THE MEMORY"*
A frequent topic of conversation among my boomer friends is what to do with all the things weâve accumulated over a lifetime. Those with children or grandchildren worry that no one wants their belongings. Those without kids already see their treasures ending up in a dumpster. The generations that follow don't want these items either. What do we do with these items and the memories that go with them?
katharinetonti
Sep 17, 20253 min read
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"TEA FOR TWO AND TWO FOR TEA"
Becoming a stay-at-home barista is not as easy as one would think.
katharinetonti
Sep 10, 20253 min read
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âCOULD IT BE MAGIC?â
WHEN THE MOST MAGICAL PLACE ON EARTH IN YOUR LOCAL LIBRARY.
katharinetonti
Sep 3, 20255 min read
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âTHE ROOM WHERE IT HAPPENSâ
WHEN YOU HAVE A SECOND CHANCE TO DIRECT ONE OF YOUR FAVORITE SHOWS.
katharinetonti
Aug 27, 20254 min read
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SHAKE A TAIL FEATHER - PART TWO
PART TWO OF A CHICKADEE TAKING OVER MY LIFE.
katharinetonti
Aug 20, 20253 min read
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SHAKE A TAIL FEATHER
When a tiny fighter-pilot chickadee moved into my neighborhood and took over my life.
katharinetonti
Aug 14, 20254 min read
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"CAN'T STOP THE FEELIN'"
Every year, one tree in my neighborhood jumps the gun and starts changing color in the middle of July. And every year, it sparks something in me â not dread for the end of summer, but joy for the season ahead.
katharinetonti
Aug 5, 20253 min read
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"IF THE HOUSE IS A ROCKIN'..."
When two trees fall, the garage door dies, and even the holiday decorations turn on you â all you can do is laugh, call a locksmith, and ask the question, Is the Universe bored, or just messing with me?
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20254 min read
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