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"IT'S A MOST (UN)USUAL DAY"
If you could relive one day of your life, which would you choose? For my latest essay, I’m looking at why the "ordinary" days are actually the ones worth savoring.
katharinetonti
Apr 79 min read


"OUR HOUSE IS A FINE HOUSE"
Some presences don’t leave when they’re gone. They stay—quietly—becoming part of the landscape you carry with you. Twenty years ago, I started watching a great blue heron at the edge of a pond.
I didn’t know then that he would teach me something about love, loss, and the quiet act of beginning again.
This is a story about a bird.
And also, not at all.
katharinetonti
Mar 249 min read


"YOU'VE GOT A FRIEND IN ME"
Today’s essay is about Helen—a woman who lived a "quiet" life that I, in my youthful arrogance, didn't appreciate. It’s a thank-you note to someone who is no longer here, and a reminder that the people we judge often have the most to teach us.
katharinetonti
Mar 113 min read


"AND VENUS WAS HER NAME"
I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about the "Power of Three" lately. Not the mythical kind, but the very real power of three women who have left a lasting impression on my heart.
This essay is a small thank you to the "everyday goddesses" who deliver much more than just food and extra napkins. 🥯✨
katharinetonti
Mar 94 min read


"ROLLER DERBY QUEEN"
I said goodbye to a beloved office companion this week: Penny the Pencil Sharpener, loyal steward of my 6Bs for nearly two decades. Her successor, Spike, has… opinions. And now, workplace morale is under review.
katharinetonti
Feb 102 min read


"PRETTY WOMAN"
We’ve been calling Medusa a monster for centuries, but have we ever stopped to ask who actually committed the crime? It’s time to stop treating "the hero’s journey" as an excuse to turn women into footnotes.
My new essay on Medusa, Poseidon, and the "divine" injustice of Mount Olympus is live. 🏛️⚡️
#JusticeForMedusa #MythologyLover #AncientGreece #NarrativeShift
katharinetonti
Feb 25 min read


"EYE OF THE TIGER"
To the woman on the track, I am Julia the Librarian. To Mr. Runway, I am the lady in the faded green "Tell your dog I said hi" sweatshirt. 🐶
My 4 a.m. gym tribe is a collection of mystery duffels, color-coordinated headbands, and genuine kindness. We aren't winning medals; we're just winning the day, one treadmill mile at a time.
Read my latest essay on the 'Eye of the Tiger' (and the chai latte waiting at the finish line). 🐯✨
katharinetonti
Jan 204 min read


"JUST THE WAY YOU ARE"*
Lily was never just a pet. She was my duet partner. 🎶 A year later, the music has stopped, but the rhythm remains. My latest essay on love, loss, and a cat named Lily.
katharinetonti
Jan 123 min read


"UNDER THE SEA"
Years ago, I decided to trade the high-stakes world of banking for a career at SeaWorld. I arrived for my "audition" in a suit and heels, convinced that a degree in Theatre was basically the same thing as a Master’s in Marine Biology. I was wrong. Very, very wrong.
katharinetonti
Jan 64 min read


"ISN'T SHE LOVELY?"*
Apparently it’s gender-reveal meltdown season, and I have thoughts. About dads, daughters, expectations—and why pink confetti shouldn’t send a grown man into orbit. 🎀🔥
katharinetonti
Dec 10, 20253 min read


"STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN"*
Apparently the afterlife comes with floral rivalries, penthouse suites, and décor competitions I did not sign up for. 💐⚰️
New essay about cemeteries, legacy, and learning to unclench—just a little.
katharinetonti
Dec 3, 20254 min read


"THE SOUND OF SILENCE"*
Some people bring joy when they enter a room. Others bring… a word count. This one’s for anyone who’s ever survived coffee with an Extrovert With No Self-Awareness (EWNSA). ☕️😵💫
katharinetonti
Nov 26, 20253 min read


"DECK THE HALLS (...and shelves, and counters, and tables....)"
11.12.2025 When I bought my condo in 2012, it was clear the place had seen better days — flimsy curtains, faded carpeting, a pink bathroom sink, and wallpaper borders straight out of 1992. It had been maintained, but it hadn't been loved and cared for in a long time. Still, I saw potential. What I didn’t realize at the time was that the condo’s state mirrored my own. Recently divorced and forced to give up nearly all my possessions, I too felt faded around the edges — intact,
katharinetonti
Nov 12, 20254 min read
WE ARE FAMILY...(SORT OF...)
Some families pass down recipes. Others pass down drama. This essay is for everyone who’s ever survived the holidays by smiling through gritted teeth and counting the hours until they can take home some leftovers. 🍗
#humorwriting #holidayfamilydynamics #writingcommunity #blogessay
katharinetonti
Nov 5, 20253 min read


"CANDLE IN THE WIND"*
Change has a way of dimming what we hold dear — but sometimes, one small light keeps us going. This is a story about loss, legacy, and the neighbors who unknowingly help us find our way home. 🕯💛
katharinetonti
Oct 29, 20253 min read


"EXIT, PURSUED BY A BEAR"*
So begins the process of blocking a show - ensuring each movement helps tell the story, while keeping the actors safe.
katharinetonti
Oct 15, 20256 min read


"IT'S NICE TO GO TRAV'LING"
10.08.2025 Friendship, souvenirs, and a raccoon’s guide to home improvement. A few years ago, a friend of mine went on vacation. When they returned, they told me they had bought souvenirs for all their friends; however, they didn’t buy me anything because, in their words, “You already have everything.” I was caught off guard by their comment and didn’t know how to respond, so I said nothing. But the more I thought about it, the more it made me question our friendship—or wha
katharinetonti
Oct 8, 20252 min read


“RIKKI DON'T LOSE THAT NUMBER"*
Text scams are reaching a new level of creativity. How deep into the convo do you get before you know it's scam?
katharinetonti
Oct 1, 20253 min read


"TAKE ME HOME, COUNTRY ROADS"*
Preparedness, it turns out, is less about surviving the weirdest stories and more about making sure you have small comforts and friends to call on when you need them.
katharinetonti
Sep 24, 20255 min read


"THANKS FOR THE MEMORY"*
A frequent topic of conversation among my boomer friends is what to do with all the things we’ve accumulated over a lifetime. Those with children or grandchildren worry that no one wants their belongings. Those without kids already see their treasures ending up in a dumpster. The generations that follow don't want these items either. What do we do with these items and the memories that go with them?
katharinetonti
Sep 17, 20253 min read
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