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"LET IT GO, LET IT GO!"
My New Year’s resolutions don’t involve Brussels sprouts or pickleball.
They involve letting go—
of apologies that never came
and forgiveness that never will.
Turns out, that’s where the real reset happens.
katharinetonti
Dec 29, 20253 min read


"ISN'T SHE LOVELY?"*
Apparently it’s gender-reveal meltdown season, and I have thoughts. About dads, daughters, expectations—and why pink confetti shouldn’t send a grown man into orbit. 🎀🔥
katharinetonti
Dec 10, 20253 min read


"THE SOUND OF SILENCE"*
Some people bring joy when they enter a room. Others bring… a word count. This one’s for anyone who’s ever survived coffee with an Extrovert With No Self-Awareness (EWNSA). ☕️😵💫
katharinetonti
Nov 26, 20253 min read


"DECK THE HALLS (...and shelves, and counters, and tables....)"
11.12.2025 When I bought my condo in 2012, it was clear the place had seen better days — flimsy curtains, faded carpeting, a pink bathroom sink, and wallpaper borders straight out of 1992. It had been maintained, but it hadn't been loved and cared for in a long time. Still, I saw potential. What I didn’t realize at the time was that the condo’s state mirrored my own. Recently divorced and forced to give up nearly all my possessions, I too felt faded around the edges — intact,
katharinetonti
Nov 12, 20254 min read
WE ARE FAMILY...(SORT OF...)
Some families pass down recipes. Others pass down drama. This essay is for everyone who’s ever survived the holidays by smiling through gritted teeth and counting the hours until they can take home some leftovers. 🍗
#humorwriting #holidayfamilydynamics #writingcommunity #blogessay
katharinetonti
Nov 5, 20253 min read


"CANDLE IN THE WIND"*
Change has a way of dimming what we hold dear — but sometimes, one small light keeps us going. This is a story about loss, legacy, and the neighbors who unknowingly help us find our way home. 🕯💛
katharinetonti
Oct 29, 20253 min read


"HELLO, GOODBYE*"
Finding the right volunteer opportunity is like finding the right job. It can be a rewarding experience, but when it isn't - then it's time to leave.
katharinetonti
Oct 22, 20254 min read


"IT'S NICE TO GO TRAV'LING"
10.08.2025 Friendship, souvenirs, and a raccoon’s guide to home improvement. A few years ago, a friend of mine went on vacation. When they returned, they told me they had bought souvenirs for all their friends; however, they didn’t buy me anything because, in their words, “You already have everything.” I was caught off guard by their comment and didn’t know how to respond, so I said nothing. But the more I thought about it, the more it made me question our friendship—or wha
katharinetonti
Oct 8, 20252 min read


“RIKKI DON'T LOSE THAT NUMBER"*
Text scams are reaching a new level of creativity. How deep into the convo do you get before you know it's scam?
katharinetonti
Oct 1, 20253 min read


"TAKE ME HOME, COUNTRY ROADS"*
Preparedness, it turns out, is less about surviving the weirdest stories and more about making sure you have small comforts and friends to call on when you need them.
katharinetonti
Sep 24, 20255 min read


"TEA FOR TWO AND TWO FOR TEA"
Becoming a stay-at-home barista is not as easy as one would think.
katharinetonti
Sep 10, 20253 min read


“COULD IT BE MAGIC?”
WHEN THE MOST MAGICAL PLACE ON EARTH IN YOUR LOCAL LIBRARY.
katharinetonti
Sep 3, 20255 min read


SHAKE A TAIL FEATHER
When a tiny fighter-pilot chickadee moved into my neighborhood and took over my life.
katharinetonti
Aug 14, 20254 min read


EVERYDAY PEOPLE
What started as a leaf-peeping adventure turned into something richer. Join me on a ten-day journey through New England where strangers from every corner of the country find common ground—and maybe a little magic—in unexpected places.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20253 min read
"DO YOU BELIEVE IN MAGIC?"
Do you solemnly swear to eat that salad you just bought? Same. This essay is about grocery store delusions, lettuce guilt, and the everyday optimism that keeps us believing… next week will be different.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20253 min read


"CELL BLOCK TANGO"
It started with expired meds and a Knife Skills class. It ended with a car accident, a police report, and a suspiciously well-armed SUV. Some stories you just can’t make up.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20255 min read
"UNDERCOVER ANGEL"
A walk, a workout, a slice of pie — small, everyday moments that reveal the quiet grace of people who show up, again and again, for someone else.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20252 min read


'AIN'T NOBODY HERE BUT US CHICKENS"
What happens when good intentions meet free samples and towering shelves of temptation? Join me at the warehouse store where you, too, can walk away with a cart full of buyer’s remorse.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20253 min read
"BIG WHEELS KEEP ON TURNIN'"
From weddings to workout classes, Proud Mary keeps showing up — and so do we. In this joyful, memory-soaked reflection, I’m thinking about life lessons that live in dance floors, disco lights, and one unstoppable woman named Betty.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20253 min read


"TRAVELIN' MAN"
When your travel dreams come with a schedule, a soup standoff, and a tour guide named Natalie, it’s best to stay on your toes — and near the bus. Reflections on the comedy and chaos of structured group travel.
katharinetonti
Jul 29, 20253 min read
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